10 Signs of Maturity

  1. Small talk no longer excites you.
  2. Sleep is better than a Friday night out.
  3. You forgive more.
  4. You respect differences.
  5. You become more open minded
  6. You don’t force love.
  7. You accept heartaches.
  8. You don’t judge easily.
  9. You prefer to be silent that engage in a pointless fight.
  10. Your happiness doesn’t depend on others.

1 Major Lesson I’ve Learned This Year…

One major lesson I learned this year is that you can’t keep giving yourself to someone who isn’t going to give you their whole self to you. What I am I mean by that is if you were showing someone the kind of effort that you wish to be shown, you’re only going to get hurt in the end. Not everyone is going to treat you how you want to be treated; not everyone is going to be there for you 24/7 like how you want them or expect them to, and not everyone is going to be your best friend or your soulmate.

My College Experience (so far)

Today’s blog post will be about the things I like about college as well as my experience so far!

I’ve been attending college for a few years now. I started out going on school campus for a while then started doing everything online. 

College is different that high school in many ways. In college you can pretty much do as you please (no dress code, come and go as you when you want (most of the time). Another plus is you go by your own schedule, so whatever works for you! Just pick the classes you wanna take and the times, then go from there! You can also drop a class if you find that it is too hard. College (in my opinion) is easier than high school. You’re given alot of time per assignment especially if you’re doing it online. It’s also pretty easy to make friends as well. 

My experience has been pretty great so far! My first time on campus I made a few friends right away as well passing my first class with either an A or B I can’t remember lol. Now I am doing online, which is easy/hard. For example we are pretty much on our own. The teacher explains each assignment briefly but we as students need to know how to do it based on little info. We are typically given a week per assignment (each one due on Sunday) which is very helpful for those who are busy during the week. Now I’m going to list the bad sides to college.

1. It is expensive for those who don’t get financial aid.

2. Classes fill up quickly! 

3. Classes can be confusing at times when not given clear instructions.

4. It does take awhile to finish (get your degree) if you take only 1-3 classes at a time.

Those are just 4 things I thought of randomly but I’m sure other people who attend college have different things that they dont like as well.

Hope you all enjoyed today’s post!!! 

10 Things Girls Look For/LOVE in a Guy!

1: Girls love when a guy is interested in their likes and dislikes.
2: Girls love when a guy is honest and open about their feelings, etc.
3: Girls love to be surprised once in awhile.
4: Girls love when guys ask advice from them.
5: Girls like a guy who can protect them and make them feel safe.
6: Girls don’t like guys who are controlling or demanding.
7: If a girl really wants to be with a guy she’ll make sure it happens.
8: Girls love romantic guys. Show her a good time fellas!
9: Girls want to feel that you’re proud for having them.
10: Girls adore guys who don’t just think about sex.

10 Things That EVERY Girl Should Know!

1: You are BEAUTIFUL!
Every girl should know that they are beautiful and unique in their own way.
2: You are in CONTROL. Don’t let anyone bring you down, you do you girl. (:
3: You have the POWER to say no. Don’t feel obligated to say yes in a negative or unsafe situation.
4: You should NEVER stay in a toxic relationship. It’s always better to walk away before it gets worse.
5: You should NEVER feel worthless.
7: LISTEN to your body.
8: DON’T rely on others to make you happy.
9: KEEP a positive attitude!

A-Z Post! (Tips for a better life)

A- Allow time for yourself. Never feel obligated to always fulfill others needs when yours haven’t been fully met yet.
B- Be the best you can be! You have the potential to do great things. Put those great things into action!

C- Create new beginnings go out and make something of your day. Find new adventure in the world!

D- Dedicate yourself. Always put 110% in and what you do and stay motivated!

E- Encourage others. Be the one who sends out a message of hope. Show others that they’re not alone!

F- Find your passion. Explore the endless possibilities that are out there and find whatever it is that you love to Do!

G- Grow in ways that benefit you. Know your strengths and weaknesses and keep a goal on what you want to accomplish and how you can grow.

H- Happiness is key. Always put your happiness first and never let anyone take that away from you.

I- Ignore the haters. People will always find a reason to be rude. You just gotta find a way to look past the hate and move foward.

J- Join a group. Whether it be a group on Facebook like a writing group or a group that talks about certain things that you interests you find a group and join it because it will bring you joy.

K- Keep a journal or planner. Planning your day or keeping a journal can keep you organized which will cause less stress in your life when you know you’re going to do throughout the day.

L- Love. Love. Love. ♡♡♡ This is pretty self explanatory but everyone could use some love in their lives.

M- Make the right decision. Go with your gut and chose wisely!

N- Never give up! Things may seem hard at first but I promise it’s only temporary and youll be able to get through it soon enough.

O- Open minded about your options. Basically keep an open mind about what is out there!

P- Positivity is so important. Positive minds can lead to a positive life. (:

Q- Quit making excuses! You can do anything you set your mind to! However you

R- Remove negativity from your life! Get rid of what is causing pain and hurt and you will feel so much better.

S- Stay focused! Strategize how you will take on something and go from there. (:

T- Talk it out. If you are feeling sad or depressed, talk to someone about it. Talking it out will help alot!

U- Use your time wisely! Know your time limit and get things done!

V- Vocalize your thoughts when necessary. If something is bothering you or you feel like you need to tell someone something important don’t hold back this will only cause you to feel guilty or anxious.

W- Work towards your dreams, goals, and visions.

X- (can’t think of one sorry lol)

Y- You are worth it! Never feel like you are worthless because of an event that occurred or because someone told you on that you are. That is untrue and you should never believe those lies!

Z- (can’t think of one sorry lol)