Everything is not what it seems…

In today’s society we take a look at people on Instagram and we see these amazing photos and think to ourselves these people have everything but what we don’t realize is that we post things that we want people to see not what we don’t want them to see. You’re not going to see someone post a photo of them in pain or hurting I mean you might but that’s rare and that’s not what we want society to look at us as. We want everyone to see us as these great people who have it all and sometimes it’s not like that. What we post is what we want others to view us as. As these perfect people who arent broken or hurt or depressed. For example when we see celebrities we think they have everything but in reality they can be just as broken as the rest of us.

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Questioning Ourselves

Do you ever look in the mirror and think to yourself… why am I the way that I am? Why do I choose to do things a certain way? Why do I act this way towards other? Sometimes these thoughts come to my mind and I begin to question everything. Thoughts, emotions, and actions are what make us different and unique. We as individuals can bring ourselves down by over thinking and it can cause a great deal of anxiety or depression. I know for myself personally I have a hard time backing away from routine and while routine can be a good thing it can also be good to switch things up. I also have a hard time saying no in difficult situations. I’ll either give in or ignore it. Then I ask myself why am I like this? Should I just be blunt with people? As far as being different or unique, we may do something that isn’t “normal” in society. This can create alot of stress and like I mentioned before it’ll cause us to question ourselves. All in all just be yourself and if you feel something isnt right, don’t be afraid to change it!

MY SUMMER ESSENTIALS! 

A hat (Just a nice baseball cap)

Flip flops – I have a ton so these are essential!

Shorts and Tanks

Reusable Water Bottle – keeps me hydrated all day!

Sunglasses – duh (;

Setting spray – a mist for my makeup to last all day.

Lip balm – I use EOS and Baby Lips

Summer scarf – mine has lips on it haha

Hair Products – beach spray to make my hair wavy!

Summer Music Playlist

Do Something GREAT!!!

So it’s about 4:30 a.m. on a Sunday morning and I randomly got inspired to do something great. I don’t know what that looks like yet but I know that I want this thing to benefit not only me but other people as well. I want to do something that is going to change my life and that I will always remember. I also what this to be something that others will never forget. I encourage you to go out and be inspired! Everyday is a fresh start, go do something great!

10 Things Girls Look For/LOVE in a Guy!

1: Girls love when a guy is interested in their likes and dislikes.
2: Girls love when a guy is honest and open about their feelings, etc.
3: Girls love to be surprised once in awhile.
4: Girls love when guys ask advice from them.
5: Girls like a guy who can protect them and make them feel safe.
6: Girls don’t like guys who are controlling or demanding.
7: If a girl really wants to be with a guy she’ll make sure it happens.
8: Girls love romantic guys. Show her a good time fellas!
9: Girls want to feel that you’re proud for having them.
10: Girls adore guys who don’t just think about sex.

10 Things That EVERY Girl Should Know!

1: You are BEAUTIFUL!
Every girl should know that they are beautiful and unique in their own way.
2: You are in CONTROL. Don’t let anyone bring you down, you do you girl. (:
3: You have the POWER to say no. Don’t feel obligated to say yes in a negative or unsafe situation.
4: You should NEVER stay in a toxic relationship. It’s always better to walk away before it gets worse.
5: You should NEVER feel worthless.
6: STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!
7: LISTEN to your body.
8: DON’T rely on others to make you happy.
9: KEEP a positive attitude!
10: BE YOURSELF!