Wanting VS. Going After It

For todays post, I’m going to be talking about a topic that everyone can relate to.
We all want things in life whether that be a car, a job, etc. Sometimes we aren’t willing to put forth the effort to get those things.
For example, getting any kind of job requires a few things such an application and providing a resume. Most of the time we need to work for what we want in life without expecting things to just be handed to us. Just because it may be hard doesn’t mean we should give up or stop trying.
Here is another example of wanting, but not going for it. ~ You see something that draws you in like a new car but you dont have money and aren’t willing to do what it takes to get the money, instead you procrastinate buying that car.
Never give up! Things take time. Do what is right and go for it! It’ll all be worth it in the end.
I hope you all enjoyed this post. Thanks for reading!

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Self Improvement/Communication

I could literally go on and on about today’s topic but I’ll keep it short with a few examples on how to improve ones self.
Getting feedback from others is a great way to know what you can improve on. It’s always helpful to get advice from those you care about.
For example if a friendship isn’t working out, you can figure out if there is anything you’re doing wrong to improve yourself and that friendship as well. Communication in all areas is so important. Whether it be in relationships or friendships it’s good to get things that bother or don’t bother you out in the open. If we dont communicate then we will never really be aware of how someone else is feeling or what we can take away from the conversations that we have.
Healthy lifestyles are another form of self improvement. Knowing what you need to do to improve your life physically can be very important.
This is all I have for today’s post. I hope it helps at least one person out!

 Making Sacrifies… 

Sometimes we have to put others first in situations. Other times we have to make sacrifices we those for those we love and care about. It’s not always an easy thing to do in fact it’s very hard but sometimes it’s worth it because they’re worth it. For example long distance relationships puts a huge strain on both partners but it’s something that is completely worth it because you love and care about them. No matter what the distance is, it will not tear you guys apart. Another example would be not hearing from someone you care about in awhile. Patience is a big factor in all of this and it’s very important to be patient while waiting for their return. Never give up! It’ll be hard but once the wait is over, everything will worth while in the end.

Everything is not what it seems…

In today’s society we take a look at people on Instagram and we see these amazing photos and think to ourselves these people have everything but what we don’t realize is that we post things that we want people to see not what we don’t want them to see. You’re not going to see someone post a photo of them in pain or hurting I mean you might but that’s rare and that’s not what we want society to look at us as. We want everyone to see us as these great people who have it all and sometimes it’s not like that. What we post is what we want others to view us as. As these perfect people who arent broken or hurt or depressed. For example when we see celebrities we think they have everything but in reality they can be just as broken as the rest of us.

Questioning Ourselves

Do you ever look in the mirror and think to yourself… why am I the way that I am? Why do I choose to do things a certain way? Why do I act this way towards other? Sometimes these thoughts come to my mind and I begin to question everything. Thoughts, emotions, and actions are what make us different and unique. We as individuals can bring ourselves down by over thinking and it can cause a great deal of anxiety or depression. I know for myself personally I have a hard time backing away from routine and while routine can be a good thing it can also be good to switch things up. I also have a hard time saying no in difficult situations. I’ll either give in or ignore it. Then I ask myself why am I like this? Should I just be blunt with people? As far as being different or unique, we may do something that isn’t “normal” in society. This can create alot of stress and like I mentioned before it’ll cause us to question ourselves. All in all just be yourself and if you feel something isnt right, don’t be afraid to change it!

MY SUMMER ESSENTIALS! 

A hat (Just a nice baseball cap)

Flip flops – I have a ton so these are essential!

Shorts and Tanks

Reusable Water Bottle – keeps me hydrated all day!

Sunglasses – duh (;

Setting spray – a mist for my makeup to last all day.

Lip balm – I use EOS and Baby Lips

Summer scarf – mine has lips on it haha

Hair Products – beach spray to make my hair wavy!

Summer Music Playlist

Do Something GREAT!!!

So it’s about 4:30 a.m. on a Sunday morning and I randomly got inspired to do something great. I don’t know what that looks like yet but I know that I want this thing to benefit not only me but other people as well. I want to do something that is going to change my life and that I will always remember. I also what this to be something that others will never forget. I encourage you to go out and be inspired! Everyday is a fresh start, go do something great!